embrace the pain

When others stab you in the back-
When you are left a hopeless wreck-
When there is no hope to be see-
What can you do but-
Embrace the pain

When all of life's problems come crashing down-
When there is no joy to be found-
When you want to throw in the towel-
What else can you do but-
Embrace the pain

When your life is a hopless mess-
When you get down and depressed-
Your at your end, you must confess-
What more to do than-
Embrace the pain

Realize now, it's not your strength-
You fight,you try, but still no way-
You live your life from day to day-
But don't give up -
Embrace the pain


We all go through times in our life when we are hopeless and dejected. It's a season of life. We see no hope... no reason to go on.Some people are always in a constant state of depression. Others purpose to see the good in everything. Depression is a choice, and circumstances are neutral and we decide the outcome. Don't be a victim of your surroundings,choose to come out on top. When things come at you,embrace the opportunity to do something. Be an overcomer.Life shouldn't just happen while we watch because we are too consumed in the way we feel. Football players have a saying that goes,"Pain is just weakness leaving the body." How true is that?!When we go through something tough, we are strengthened.We are being tested and tried so that we may be built up. We are to learn from the experiences, not dread and regret them. Remember that you aren't the only one who has been hurt. You aren't the only person who has lost something that they loved. Every single person has a story,you aren't they only one. Reaching out to others heals. I don't know what it is, but it's true. If we would take the time to forget about ME, we would see a world full of hurt just waiting to be healed. When you think you can't anymore, embrace the chance to move forward."Just do it"

♥Realize now, it's not your strength
You fight,you try, but still no way
You live your life from day to day
But don't give up
Embrace the pain♥


~simply tammy♥

written by a girl to every guy

Im not very experienced in guy/girl relationships, but i'm not stupid. I have come to realize many things in the past,oh, five years or so of my life. I decided to write this after I read something similar entitled"written by a guy" It could be eye opening for many, or old news. Do with this as you will:)

To every guy:

we girls care if you talk to other girls

we do care if you are friends with other girls
and if a girl walks in and you introduce us, we want you to make it clear that we are your girlfriend.It doesnt help when she starts going off about "that time" when you "had so much fun" and says "we should hang out sometime"

we do care if other girls call and text you! especially at two in the morning.

when we tell you that you are cute, we mean ur hot! but when we do we want you to say
something sweet back like: your beautiful(and we want you to mean it)

the sexiest thing about a guy is honesty and transparency(and good cologne!)

we like when you make us laugh(if a girl laughs alot around you it usually means she likes you!)

we love when u hold the door open for us, especially when we have to walk under your arm(just don't forget deodorant!)

we do like you pay for us, it shows us you care and you want to do something for "your girl"

we like when you call us your girl (not your woman) and we hate when you call us sexy!

we love when you kiss us on the cheek or forehead. We dont always want to kiss on the lips(we see it as special)

we love to cuddle:) you can never give us to many hugs!

When we go out, we want you to dress up. show us u care by lookin' ur best!

take everything we say seriously! we wouldn't have said if we didn't mean it!

dont argue with us, we will win!

we hate when brush us off because your "busy"!girls love when all her man candy can do is talk to her.

When you tell other people stuff about us, we always find out! especially when it's our best friend!

we love your clothes.. we feel like your arms are around us when we wear your hoodie!

Don't yell at us.

dont talk, no scratch that, dont look at other girls when you're with us.

Hard core christian guys are hot:)


questions for every guy:
why isnt one girl good enough for you?
why do you tell every girl you know you like her?
why is cheating an option?

guys, when girls are in a relationship, they want someone who is honest and true to only her. We aren't interested with sharing you with anyone else. We invest alot in you and you should do the same for us. we deserve to be treated with respect and honor. Respect us and respect our morals and standards. There is nothing that says you have to like 10 other girls when you are with us. SO DONT! When you leave us we feel betrayed and hurt.. just remember that every time you tell a girl you love her, she believes it. so if you dont mean it, dont say it.we see relationships like fairy tales. don't dash our dreams. Every girl deserves to be treated like a princess...and every girl dreams of the guy who will be her prince. We love to goof off with you.. STOP TRYING TO IMPRESS US! Be yourself be real and be fun!.. thats what we truly want! You can never say or do to many nice things for us. Every girl on this planet is a hopeless romantic, hoping to romanced.♥

~simply tammy♥